Me and my now ex are together over a year and were living together a month. We had a long distant relationship but I found a job and moved in with him and his family. Before this we had a 2 month split but when we got back I moved in straight away. In the beginning everything was great but then we started fighting a lot like every day because I knew no one else and wanted him to be with me all the time. we had a row friday 2 weeks ago and then he ended it he said we were going round in circles and he wasnt happy he just had enough and told me it was over. he went to work that Monday and text me saying he loved me andit killed him seeing me the way i was and that to give him space and get a life outside of him make new friends and not be relying on him and that when he was ready he would start seeing me again but not to rush him. we got on good for that week still slept in the same bed and cuddled and all and then i moved out on thursday last week 2 minutes down the road (he told me to move local) we had arranged to bring our dog for a walk friday morning and he was going to stay over on friday night. then we had a row on friday basically due to my insecurities and he got really angry and turned round to say he didnt want me and to move on and he wanted space. i didnt text him for the week then text him yesterday and asked could we be friends and he said yea but im never getting back with you and started geting really nasty. i rang his mam and she said that he doesnt want me calling round the house anymore and now we are rowing about our dog. i dont see her as much so i want to bring her home when i am off but now hes being spiteful and telling me i cant and only deciding when i can see her. i rang his mam to try sort it out and he said to stop ringing her shes sick of me and to get some mates and called me a sad girl he said I was a loner and mynobly friend was his ma and I have no one in my life, I asked him did he care bout me and he said no but i dint know if hes jus mad. This morning he text about the dog and i asked him to apologise and he said sorry and i said i was sorry 2 and he said enjoy your time at home talk later. i love him but i dont want him to think bad of me and turn against me and go off me. what should i do? does he need more space and maybe in time he will come back if he loves me? If he truly loves me wil he come back to me in time? Please help
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Getting The Best Dog Bed
If you own a dog, especially an older one, getting a good dog bed is a really great gift to give your beloved pet. The need a good place to rest and sleep just like us. After all, you wouldn't want to bed down in an uncomfortable mattress or sleep on a hard surface all night.
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August 28th, 2011 - 2:08 am
I’m not an expert or something. But I’m trying to place myself in the shoes of your friend. That’s what u should try too.
I think your friend had a lack of "Me time", you were always around and easy to reach whenever he wanted. U even fondled when things weren’t so good, that only shows that ur too easy andvulnerablee.
These are my tips, first it is hard to execute them, but trust me it will make difference, and what u got to loose anyway?
1) Give him space, I know, you wanna be with him all the time, like the good old times. But realise that u got uninterestingg because you where to much around him, and easy to get.
2) This one is hard, but it will do you and the chances of getting him back good. Go refresh yourself, buy new clothes, get a new haircut, try to go to the gym. Don’t punish yourself by sitting home and beinmiserablele. IT WONT HELP IN ANYWAY!
3) Stay positive and be patient, act like you’re happy to go on with your live (dont over do it tough, dont actually say that ur happy to go on with your life), especially when he is around. You may even date other guys, or go out in the night with friends, this will give you confidence boost and when your friend hears it, he will go mad. Dont over do it though, dont go cheat on him or something, just be more social with both sexes
To sum it up.
1) Give him space, the opportunity to miss you, dont be to easy for him, tease him.
2) Freshen yourself up, dont be miserable
3) Stay positive and be patient, go on with your live, but keep in mind he wil come back.
4) Talking to her mom is no good, men are rebellious, they wont listen to their mom.
I hope these tips will help you.
August 28th, 2011 - 2:08 am
Sounds like he is trying to move on and isn’t interested in dating you again. If he loved you he wouldn’t be responding like he is now.
August 28th, 2011 - 2:08 am
He doesnt sound interested.
August 28th, 2011 - 2:08 am
Do nothing– simply await events.