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  1. Arianna Smith

    This is denfenitely NOT wrong. Just make sure they are housebroken. If its a puppy, i would say no because they could use the bathroom in your bed. But otherwise its not wrong. They can trust you more and be happier then being locked up in a room.

    Make sure not to kick off your dog :P
    Hope this helps
    :)

  2. ramirov33

    Personally, I don’t let my dog sleep on my bed, but I let her sleep on the floor. I don’t let her sleep in my bed because I think this sends dogs the wrong message and they get possessive. Dogs need rules if we want to coexist with them. In the wild, they have rules about territory. Very simple: you cross my territory, I kill you. Why should we be any different? I’m not suggesting the same, but some sort of boundaries are necessary. So, my dog is allowed ANYWHERE in my house, except my bed. My bed is to be respected in terms of territory and she has learned to do so. I feel she respects me more too because of this.

  3. Rayven ~ New Year Same Old Shyte

    1. A properly trained dog that knows their place? Sure its fine
    2. You don’t. Either don’t mention it OR if it comes up simply respond that what goes on in your bed really is none of their business.

  4. Elizabeth Greene

    Where the dog sleeps is up to you. If you and your wife are both okay with it then fine. It doesn’t matter what others think. I don’t believe you could squash her unless you’re drunk or medicated. It’s like having a kid in your bed – you have a sixth sense even in sleep that you could hurt them. Bottom line – your dog, your bed. Peace.

  5. wolfman

    If you enjoy having the dog sleep with you and your wife and dog enjoys it whats the problem? The dog is clean and house kept and its really none of your friends business. You don’t have to explain anything to them.
    Don’t ask permission for doing or not doing something in your own home.You and your wife are the king and queen of your domain. Live by your own rules not your friends.

  6. Shortie

    Ok well it isn’t wrong to let ur dog sleep with you. Its a personal choice for you and your wife so do what you want. If you’re that self conscious about what your friends think then they have way too much influence over ur personal affairs.

    And tell ur friends to mind their own business or tell them what you just expressed above. It’s ok to stand up for something that you want.

  7. laughing

    1) I don’t have a problem with it as long as the dog isn’t new to the household, has possessive problems over the bed, and has respect for you. A big reason people say "NO" to letting a dog sleep with you is because they lose respect for you. This isn’t all cases at all. But a lot of times because they don’t get the idea that you are allowing them to, they think you’re on the same "level" as them and don’t have to listen or obey you. That’s not okay. Or they will get territorial and "claim" it and start to mark it, growl at you, bark, etc.

    As long as your dog isn’t exhibiting unwanted behaviors, I don’t see a problem with it.

    2) You don’t have to tell them it’s "okay" and defend yourself. If they try to tell you you’re wrong, you can’t, blah blah blah, just say "Well I don’t agree" and that’s that.

    Good luck!

  8. Liv

    Yes it’s OK. Might not be for everyone, that doesn’t make it wrong.
    Honesty, I don’t think it’s any of your friends business, but as long as the dog is clean I don’t see why it should be seen as disgusting.

  9. lynda

    why tell them anything its your dog your bed and up tp you what you do with them
    its good that she will only do it when you say so so that your wife and you get alone time so i don’t see any harm in it what so ever

    i prefer not to have dogs on my and that’s my choice and your is yours
    take care

  10. twinkiebaby

    im not an expert but if the dog sleeps with u he could start to show signs of dominance and the bitch shouldn`t be allowed to do that so if he doesnt show signs of it then go for it!

  11. United Poultry Concerns

    It’s fine. If everybody is okay with it, then there is nothing wrong with it. All dogs should be indoor dogs. It is great that you walk her 4x a day! It sounds like she has a great life! That is cute that she wipes her paws before coming inside! You are bathing her way too much, though. She may be clean, but you are going to dry out her skin and coat. It doesn’t matter if a dog sleeps in bed with you. A crate is the best thing for a dog to sleep in, though. But, it is good that she waits for permission to get up on the bed. The fact that she doesn’t beg tells me that you have done a good job training her! It sounds like you have one well trained dog! The dog obviously isn’t confused. If everybody is happy with the situation, there is no problem. The barking is normal. She just doesn’t want to get crushed. If you want the dog in the bed, then let her be in the bed. This is fine. Just tell your friends that your dog is well trained and leads a good life, so she is allowed to sleep with her family. I hope I helped.

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