Hi,
I am not lonly,but I am dog/cat lonly.I get SOOO mad at my mom.
Well,1,she will "explain" how good the little kids are(bro and sis),and
NOW,she is going to have another.I want to eat my pillows.
I well,am sad for 1 point,and then,I do some thing and
I’ll get yelled at.Like yesterday,we where getting some school clothes
for me,and I say "I only have THREE bra’s."and so,
she got me some cheap ones on clearance,We are kinda poor so,I can understand that.And they were having a REALLY big sale until 10:00 at night.RIGHT NOW!! "you need to get to bed".so what if I dont go to bed,I go to bed early all the time.I am almost crying.
I am so sad,she doesnt now how hard it is for me ???
:’( I love animals,I am so untouchable to heal.There is ONE thing that will heal me,my kitten PROMISED LAST YEAR,mittens…….
NO WAY my mom would smoke/drink!
and,she is leaving my father (i dont like him) and I am ok with that.
I am…….a teen,and sad.
I feel lost,I say Im sorry everyday,I did
not know if I did something wrong?
and then,I gave up my dog dream,and came to cats.I was so nieve then though.
I feel HORRIBLE!"you will get a kitten in march".Okay,I did not see one???????
I think pillows are yummy anyways (LOL
yeah right.)I Always cry,just not anywhere CLOSE to her.I could go On
about what ive been yelled at for:saving my little sister,and NO my 1 year old brother,I,,,I HATE HIM!
Let me say,Im NOT perfect,not even close,I am christian.My mom
thinks im a brat,same with ‘daddy’.
and i ALWAYS is in tears at the end of songs,sad songs.
January 31st, 2010 - 4:34 am
Hello.
I am sorry to hear about you being lonely. That really sucks. Most of the time that is my issue too.
If you have friends to hang out with, then i would recommend that you hang with them so that you can get out of the house and hang with people your own age.
If transportation is not an issue, then if i were you, i would join a FREE after school club if it is still possible at your school, so that you will have a place that you can retreat to before you come home from school.
Sometimes, parent(s) just don’t understand, and they are too caught up in their own world to understand/relate to us teenagers. You are a teenager, right?
I really hope that things get better for you, because being in that situation truly sucks, but just know that there are much worse situations to be in.
Imagine that you have 5 little bros and sis that you have to take care of, and your mom is about to have another, with barely any way to support them. You guys are homeless, so your mom had to rent a small room that you all have to share, and it is so crowded in there that you feel like you can barely breath. Hygiene is something that can’t be taken care of regularly, and kids at school make your life a living nightmare because of it. Your mom has one steady boyfriends that drinks/smokes all the time, and would rather sit around complaining than doing anything to help her. You haven’t gotten new clothes in 3 years, and it is beginning to show.
January 31st, 2010 - 4:34 am
Oh sweetie I am so sorry you are so sad right now and feeling so down, crying sometimes helps but usually it just makes your eyes red your nose stuffy and your face blotchy so you don’t want to do to much of that if you can help it.
I assume you haven’t been able to get your kitten yet? I know it takes money to feed and care for a kitten and maybe your mom just doesn’t feel she can afford it at the moment.
It’s hard to be poor but it’s not the worst thing though I mean you have a mom who Loves you and a little bro and sis who need you you have a roof over your head and food and your mom tries hard to get you new clothes not just stuff from thrift stores or hand me downs.
When your young thing like this may seem like the worst things in the world but they really are not and you will learn that soon.
By the way Do Not Eat Your Pillow it will taste awful and you won’t have a soft place for your head when you go to sleep
Smile Little One the world will get better and brighter
January 31st, 2010 - 4:34 am
Maybe you’re lonely because you whine, like "oh, poor me." No one wants to be around that.
You need to stop whining. Be thankful for the clothes and things you have and don’t pressure your (possibly over-worked, under-paid) mother to buy you more stuff because that will make her more stressed, which in turn will make her more likely to snap at you. Buying you a kitten will cost a lot in food, vet bills, etc.
Go to bed when you’re supposed to unless your homework’s not finished. Help your family out, like buy doing chores even if you don’t have to.
As for being lonely, call up a neighbor or classmate and go to the movies or hang out at the mall or a coffeeshop with a band playing, or something. Connect with people, not just cats.